Friday, November 28, 2008

When Do You Draw the Line?

they say, when you love, you love with all your heart - unconditionally and willing to give everything up. but what happens when that love renders you blind, deaf and mute? when that love makes you a numb, unfeeling zombie? when that love rips your life apart? do you still love? or do you finally tell yourself to let go?

love is a mad, unpredictable thing. yes, love with all your heart. but know when to walk away. because true, pure love, with all its hurts and pains and sacrifices, shouldn't make one lifeless. it shouldn't make you blind. it shouldn't scare you. it shouldn't make you into this mad, raging person. it shouldn't kill one's senses.

true, pure love, with all its hurts and pains and sacrifices, still make you happy. it makes you giddy. it makes you fall in love over and over again, despite the countless terrible fights. it makes you strong. it makes you become a better person.

love can be cruel. but only if you let it.

10 comments:

Aileen November 28, 2008 at 5:57 PM  

hmm, i wonder what inspired this entry. *grin* but you are right, love should make you feel very very good. =)

Tin November 28, 2008 at 11:40 PM  

this is very true. pure love does not shatter. (the kind that you hold on to even if it leaves you dead and with no self-worth is just something you have mistaken, fermented by years, magnified by romanticism) :)

been there. i don't wanna go back.

Your Girl November 29, 2008 at 10:33 AM  

@ ate ai: ahem, inspirations spring forth at the most inconvenient time and places. haha. yes, love makes us feel a variety of emotions but the most dominant of it should be happiness and contentment. :) mura kog korek! haha.

Your Girl November 29, 2008 at 10:35 AM  

@ tinay patadyong: pugers, english! hahaha. yes, we are allowed to wallow in misery for sometime but not all our life! it's up to us to chase that other butterfly. we can't be tied down forever. it's good you left it, now i know, mas nalipay ka. especially na friends ta. hahahaha.

Shutterfairy November 29, 2008 at 5:44 PM  

love has always confused me.

photosandmemos November 29, 2008 at 6:21 PM  

spoken by someone who loves in wild abandon=)pity is the man who wrecks and tramples upon this lady's emotions,or her love ones, as love begets love, and hatred begets, chastise and pure condemnation...=)
kaith, you are an epitome of a true romantic=) but a modern one (as you are not one helpless damsel in distress,haha) =)
you are the kick ass version!!!hahaha=)

Your Girl November 29, 2008 at 10:57 PM  

@ photosandmemos: thank you chel, i'll take that as a compliment. :) yes, i love in wild abandon but i can also easily drop you in a blink of an eye once my values and sanity are compromised. haha. i love you, but i love myself more. it sounds so selfish. hahaha.

Your Girl November 29, 2008 at 10:58 PM  

@ mai.mai: love is confusing. it can drive one crazy if we're not careful. haha.

Tin November 30, 2008 at 5:51 PM  

baw perte pero la ko mahimo kay ikaw na ang nag-una hahaha :P painglesa lang ko kis-a kay para daw sosyal man kuno ko. pero tuod ang gugma masakit kis-a pero indi na dapat ang klase nga makaguluba. kag namit na sya dapat. :D

Your Girl December 1, 2008 at 11:36 AM  

@ tinay patadyong: hahaha. cge ah, sugtan. yes, first and foremost, namit guid na sya dapat. kay if on the first try, it's not, ground for annulment. hahaha.

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