Monday, December 22, 2008

Disclaimer

see that header up there? what does it say? Kaith, Uninterrupted. this blog has my name in bold letters up there. so since this is my blog, i believe i have all the right to write whatever i want and feel appropriate to write as long as it is within the boundaries of internet and blogging ethics, am i correct? and besides, i never, ever, said that this blog is only gonna publish sweet and sunshiny and candy-coated entries. because in all honesty, my life, as half-depicted and described in this blog, is not all sweet, sunshiny and candy-coated because again, shit happens. so, since this blog is basically a chronicle of my mundane, shallow and justkaith existence, which can be happy or sad or flirty or angsty or mad, depending on my mood, you can expect a variety of entries that perfectly reflect how and what i am going through right now.

i don't blog to entertain anyone, except myself. this is my outlet, it's a hobby. it's what i do when i am feeling ecstatic or trashy or whatever. i don't write entries to show off. perhaps at some point i appear as a show off kay teh, ilongga, tikalon kuno. my a$$.

i don't blog to smear anyone's reputation. the only people i name in this blog are my family, and my friends. and nobody, nobody, ever, has the right to assume i am writing about them, or someone else, just because i didn't care to put a name, an initial, and just preferred a pronoun. come on! has anybody ever told you that to assume is to make an a$$ out of u and me? so not unless you see your name, or your friend's, featured in one of my blog entries, never think that i am writing about you or that i am referring to you. because frankly, if your name's not in there, you are not worth it.

i don't want to flatter myself that i have an audience, that some people actually come here on a daily basis to know what i am up to. well, i know the supergirls are always here. hehe. whether or not i have readers, i will keep on blogging. but i will not promise that i'll only write about the good things. because as much as we only want good things to happen, sadness and frustration and disappointment are very much part of life. mine anyway.

so in my quest to record the very real kaith in all her glory (haha!), i also have to jot down the big and little things that make me want to pull out my hair, and make me gnash my teeth until i scream in agony. looking back (or more like reading my archives) always make me realize that i am lucky enough to survive some of life's biggest potholes. i got out of it alive. no, not unscathed, but, roaring for more. that's why i try to still write about some major setbacks because i guess, these setbacks have made me more tough and well, perhaps wiser.

no. i am not mad right now. i just remembered one time when my blog was called, "your precious blog." yeah, it's my precious blog because 1/4 of my life's in here. but, it's not my precious blog because i use it to demean others. honestly, some people really need to get a life.

you know you love me.

6 comments:

Shutterfairy December 22, 2008 at 11:41 PM  

kitay, ginhawag lawum and smile..

Your Girl December 23, 2008 at 10:53 PM  

@ Mai: nag inhale/exhale nko mai. hehe.

photosandmemos December 24, 2008 at 5:21 AM  

kaith,naay natuk-an ani nga entry,hahaha=)
i always feel, that our blogs are precious, because it is our online diary=) therefore, people should respect OUR OPINIONS and OUR FEELINGS as long as WE DONT NAME people, and harass other individual...besides if we dont name anyone, if other people react, mukhang guilty ang show=)

Your Girl December 24, 2008 at 9:00 AM  

@ photosandmemos: hahaha. yeah, i mean, if they want to rant and rave, they should get a blog too, right? hehe. it's just a matter of respect. but then again, people always misuse that term, RESPECT. mura lahi tingali ang definition sa ilang dictionary ug sa ato. hahaha.

Anonymous December 26, 2008 at 10:05 PM  

You go, girl! You're definitely right. We shouldn't have to write to please anyone but ourselves. ;-)

Your Girl December 26, 2008 at 10:17 PM  

@ Iris: i only write to rant, rave, sob or advertise. hahaha. ila na lang na if they don't like what they read. they have the option to click that X button, right? hahaha.

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